"Free Accounts use S2 cannot add counters to their journal styles."
FAQ 258 - What is the "Nudge" feature? How do I use it?
"..they must be on your Friends list, and they must friend you back."
Just sounds a little bit awkard to me. 'they must have friended you back'?
ETA: Heh, thought I was going crazy until I realised there just isn't a tag for 258 yet